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BOOKS

In no particular order.  I've read most of these and they are worth buying.

FAMILY JEWELS: A GUIDE TO MALE GENITAL PLAY & TORMENT Hardy Haberman (2001)
SENSUOUS MAGIC: A GUIDE FOR ADVENTUROUS COUPLES Patrick Califia-Rice, M.A. (2001)
THE SECOND COMING Edited by Patrick Califia-Rice and Robin Sweeney
SEDUCTIVE ART OF JAPANESE BONDAGE Mistress Midori (2001)
EROTIC BONDAGE HANDBOOK Jay Wiseman  (2000)
LOVING DOMINANT John Warren, Ph.D.  (2000)
COME HITHER:A COMMON SENSE GUIDE TO KINKY SEX Gloria Brame  (2000)

 

WHEN SOMEONE YOU LOVE IS KINKY Dossie Easton and Catherine A. Liszt  (2000)
BOUND TO BE FREE: THE SM EXPERIENCE Charles Moser, PhD, MD and J.J. Madison  (1999)
COMPLETE SPANKER, THE Lady Green  (1997)
LEATHERFOLK Mark Thompson, editor  (1991, 2001)
FLOGGING Joseph W. Bean  (2000)
KINKY CRAFTS: 99 DO-IT-YOURSELF S/M TOYS Lady Green, editor  (1995)
LEATHERMAN'S HANDBOOK Larry Townsend  (1972, 2000)
NEW BOTTOMING BOOK Dossie Easton and Janet W. Hardy  (2001)
COMING TO POWER Edited by Samois
SM 101

A Realistic Introduction

Jay Wiseman  (1993)
SCREW THE ROSES, SEND ME THORNS Philip Miller and Molly Devon (1995)
SEXUALLY DOMINANT WOMAN

A Workbook for Nervous Beginners

Lady Green  (1992)
KLUTZ BOOK OF KNOTS John Cassidy  (1985)
BULLWHIP BOOK Andrew Conway  (2000)
SEX DISASTERS (AND HOW TO SURVIVE THEM) Charles Moser, PhD and Janet W. Hardy
THE ETHICAL SLUT Dossie Easton and Catherine Liszt
BIG BIG LOVE Hanne Blank
POMOSEXUALS

Challenging Assumptions about Gender and Identity

Carol Queen and Lawrence Schimel, editors
REAL LIVE NUDE GIRL

Chronicles of Sex-Positive Culture

Carol Queen
PUBLIC SEX: THE CULTURE OF RADICAL SEX Pat Califia
POLYAMORY: THE NEW LOVE WITHOUT LIMITS Dr. Deborah M. Anapol
SEXUAL POLITICS OF DISABILITY Tom Shakespeare, Kath Gillespe-Sells and Dominic Davies
FAT!SO?

Because You Don't Have to Apologize for Your Size

Marilyn Wann
A Charm School for Sissy Maids Mistress Lorelei
The Mistress Manual Mistress Lorelei
Safe, Sane, Consensual... And Fun  John Warren
The Bride Wore Black Leather... And He Looked Fabulous!: An Etiquette Guide for the Rest of Us  Drew Campbell

 

Look Into My Eyes: How to Use Hypnosis to Get the Most Out of Your Sex Life Peter Masters
Turning Pro: A Guide to Sex Work for the Ambitious and the Intrigued  Magdalene Meretrix
A Hand in the Bush: The Fine Art of Vaginal Fisting  Deborah Addington
KinkyCrafts: 99 Do-It-Yourself S/M Toys for the Kinky Handyperson Lady Green with Jaymes Easton
Miss Abernathy's Concise Slave Training Manual Christina Abernathy
Training With Miss Abernathy: A Workbook for Erotic Slaves and Their Owners Christina Abernathy
On The Safe Edge: A Manual For SM Play by Trevor Jacques (Whole SM Publishing, Toronto, 1993)
Healthcare Without Shame Dr. Charles Moser
Ties that Bind  Guy Baldwin
The Master's Manual  Jack Rinella
The Compleat Slave  Jack Rinella
The Topping Book Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy
The Bottoming Book Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy
Macho Sluts Patrick Califia-Rice
The Lesbian SM Safety Manual Samois