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Lists of Punishments, Teases, Humiliations, etc.

Below is a list I offer up for any who might be interested. This list was provided to us by MrStefen and was so good I just had to share. Take a Look - and have a good time!!

List of teases:

- Make him strip naked and stand with he legs apart while you sit in a chair in front of him with your clothes on. Make him masturbate in front of you till he is hard and then with his hands on top of his head, order him to swing his cock and balls around with vigor.

- Have him kneel before You and worship your feet. Make him clean between your toes and spend some time doing this.

- Have him address you as 'Mistress'


- Have him kiss Your ass...make him beg to kiss Your ass. Have him tell you that he wants to be your "ass slut" and tease him about this. Don't let him have you right away, waiting till he pleads with some seriousness in his voice.

- Tie his hands behind him and have him remove your panties with his teeth.

- Don't let him masturbate or touch his cock for 4 or 5 days. Make him go and get a small saucer from the kitchen and kneel in front of you and masturbate , his cum to be shot in the small saucer.

- Tie his hands behind his back. Have him kneel with knees spread naked in front of You while you read or watch TV. Be wearing high heels and tell him to keep his eyes lowered. Occasionally, nudge and tease his balls and penis with Your shoes.

- Use some thick yarn and tie a slip noose in the end of his hard penis...tighten it around the head of the penis, tug on it, pull it shake it, lead him with it, whatever you please.

- Show Your slave your panty crotch, make him smell it, but no touching.

- Tie your slave spread eagled to the bed and tease him for hours. Use ice cubes on his balls, warm massage oil to masturbate him slowly, etc....Make sure he has a big hard on, but once he does only touch it, when he needs just a little more encouragement, don't let him cum.

Put on his favorite lingerie or domina costume on and tease him with it.

Scratch him with your finger nails, Tickle him, run a feather up and down the inside of his thighs, pinch his nipples, generally torment him, and keep him aroused, but no cumming till you are ready to allow it.

Sit on his chest and find out what he would do to be allowed to kiss your nipple..let him almost kiss it but pull away, make him beg.

Take a break, put some worn panties over his face and leave the room for a while and let him think about what else you might do.

Squat above his face, make him reach with his tongue to taste you.or your panties...get more promises

Blindfold him and make him lick you to several orgasms. Take a break,cum back and do it all again.

- Rub his face against your pussy or sit on his face, but gag him with your panties or a gag so that he can't lick you.

- Tie his balls off to something behind him so he has to tug on them to smell Your panties or kiss your ass...stay just out of reach.

-tie his balls with some thick yarn and attach the end of that to an object with a little weight, like a hammer, or a weight from a weight lifting set, make him drag this across the floor behind him while you walk beside him and switch his bottom.

- Masturbate in front of him. Use a dildo or a vibrator.

- Put the base of the dildo in his mouth and make him satisfy You with it.

Do it so his nose presses between Your ass cheeks. He'll be Your little brown noser and love it.

- Make him lick the dildo clean.

- Tie him down to the bed and tie his hands to his penis but do not give him permission to cum with harsh punishments for disobedience.

- Put Your worn panties over his head so he can smell your odor.

- Make him wear a cock ring (a cat collar works well), get him hard, and then snap the end of a plastic fly swatter down gently across just the tip of his penis.

List of Humiliations:

Once he'll "do Anything to please You" here's some ideas that will keep Your slave attentive and in his proper place, and will hopefully be entertaining for You.

- Make him wear Your panties or lingerie, dress him up as a little girl or a French maid, have him serve you dinner or bring you a drink while you read or watch TV. When you have no need for him he can stand in the corner with his noise pressed against the wall.

- Make him do housework naked or dressed in women's clothes.

- Make him hand wash your panties and lingerie.

- Make him wear a collar and lead him around with a leash like a dog, he can even eat dinner from a dog dish on on his knees at your side when you are at the table..

- Ride him around as your pony boy...spurs? a riding crop?

- Attach a leash to his balls or cock ring, and lead him around with that,

- Tie it off in front of the sink while he does the dishes.

- Dress him up like the slut that he is, wear a strap-on dildo and make him beg to suck it. fuck him.

- Make him wear Your panties or lingerie under his regular clothes when he goes out or goes to work so that he will think of his Mistress constantly.

- If he is horny and You are not, make him strip and kneel silently in front of You and order him to stay erect.

- Make him masturbate for You, make him beg for permission to cum, don't let him, punish him if he does.

- Make him earn his rewards; for example:

Allow him to kiss your ass after the dishes are done.

1 minute of pleasure for him for 10 minutes of yours.

5 minutes of pleasure for him after he makes you cum 3 times.

Spank him 10 times for each minute it takes him to jack off.

- If You think he's earned an orgasm, make him cum on your feet or on your heels or in a dish or on your ass and then make him lick You clean.

- Order him to bring himself to the edge of orgasm and stay there until you give him permission. When you give the command he must cum within 30 seconds or he will be punished or not allowed to cum at all that day.

- If he's really horny and bothering you, you may want to curb his interest by ordering him to jerk off 2 or 3 times in a day, or you can do this for him....there are a variety of things that can be used to create different sensations.....gloves, cremes, creme with coffee grounds on the hand....nylon sleeves, etc.....

- Make him lick you clean after sex.

- When You go out, order him to tie himself up, be naked or dressed up as a girl and be kneeling at the door for when You arrive.

- Make him think of a new way for You to humiliate him.

Punish him if you don't think it's good enough.

List of Punishments:

If he's not performing to Your satisfaction, or you just feel the need to assert Your right to punish Your slave.

- Spank or whip him. (wooden spoon, hairbrush, belt, ruler, ping pong paddle...)

- Tie him in an uncomfortable position.

- Tie his ankles together and attach his balls to them.

- Hog tied. (wrists and ankles tied together)

- Hanging from the ceiling by his wrists.

- In a chair with his knees pulled up to his shoulders - good for spanking and everything is exposed and vulnerable. Use a small plastic swizzle stick to probe his ass. Or buy rubber gloves and make a big production of putting them on when he is tied with his knees to his chest.....Give him a slow prolonged anal exam.

- Tie up his balls and cock with a long leather thong, clothes line, or boot lace. Use a long piece, and wrap the base and balls repeatedly.

Do each ball separately. Take each ball in a separate hand and rest them on your open palm. tell him that these use to be his but they belong to you know. to use, or play with as you want. Jiggle them in your palms....cup each hand around them and squeeze very slowly and somewhat gently, but until you see him grimace...ask him who owns these things now.

Tie tight loops around his shaft from base to tip then tie the end off back between his legs and up to a belt or to his handcuffs. Use a needle to scrap along his shaft lightly, and poke his bottom a few times....

- Make him wear a male cock cage.

- Attach clothes pins or nipple clips to his nipples, balls, cock or wherever.

- Put a butt plug in his ass. Or get out the strap-on.

- Enema.

- Don't give him permission to cum. Deny him orgasms for a long period of time.

- Put Ben-gay or icy-hot on his penis and nipples. (not on his balls, and doesn't wash off with water....)

- Drip candle wax on him.

- Make him do exercises (jumping jacks, leg spreads, squats,aerobics...) while naked.

Put on some opera length gloves and tell him he has earned a face spanking. Make him kneel and hold head high and slap him repeatedly, {note from Domina, PLEASE check out our faceslapping FAQ before you do this!} not too hard, but over and over till he gets a little dizzy. grab him by his ears and pull his head down between your legs and make him service you. before you cum, put him back in position and slap his face a few more times....repeat as often as you like. While you are positioning him for a slap, jiggle his balls with the tip of your high heel and tell him what a nasty little boy he is...

Make him order a blow up doll from the back of some sex mag, and have him bring it into the living room. Make him blow it up and set it on the coffee table. Don't say anything about it for an hour or so, then have him strip and fondle him till he is hard. Make him mount the doll and screw it while you watch, or while you paddle him....or tickle his ass cheeks with a long feather.....make him talk to her, give her a name and say sexy things to her while he is humping her.....have him do it till he cums and tease him about what a little stud he is.....and how you may let your girlfriend xxx watch this one time, or how the guys at work would love to see this.....

We would like to increase this list and make it available to all D/s couples who like us, were looking for ideas to increase their pleasure and fun. If you have any favorite teases, punishments, humiliations, etc., send them to us and we'll post the additions on a weekly basis.

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