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From A Reader of WhAP Magazine

I just discovered your site through a link at WhAP Magazine, a publication my wife reads regularly (and from which I have served many punishment assignments.) May I suggest a couple of more techniques?


1. Both public masturbation and eating one's own cum are humiliating. My wife once had two female friends over for dinner, though I wasn't aware, at the time, that they were also into humiliation. As we sat down to dinner, my wife said "honey, take off your pants and show the girls your panties." Shocked,I of course, did so. One said "does he cum on command?" My wife said not "on command, but I would if she told me to." The third woman said "make him cum on his salad and eat it." I did!

2. She had made me masturbate and, the instant I appear to be cumming, has pulled my hands back behind me, making my cum dribble out on to the floor. It's very frustrating!

3. I drive 45 minutes to work. Last week, she made me cum in my panties just prior to leaving, having to drive with a wet panty crotch. They were mostly dry by the time I arrived, but were crinkly all day. When I got home, she made me suck them clean and put them back on to wear at dinner.

4. While on my back, legs in the air, I await my cumming to shoot my load into my mouth. As I stroke, she's spanking me with a paddle. As I cum, she fiercely spanks my ass. I'm punished, usually with a spanking, but occasionally with a dildoing, if she thinks I missed too much cum. The cum I swallow, I do, with the cum on my face staying there, sometimes for hours. The cum that misses all together is licked up.


1. Visiting lingerie stores with her. As she's checking out, she says, "you need some more panties for yourself. Go get two pair in your size and one pair a size smaller. I shouldn't have to remember your panty supply! When we leave, you'll take off the panties you're wearing now and put on the smaller ones. Go now!" She's even asked the clerk if I could change there. . . sometimes yes, sometimes no.

2. Full, flowery, lacy briefs, under white shorts in the summertime, of course. But also on the way to the health club, so I must be exposed in my panties at the club.

3. I once had to go an adult store and buy three cock restraining toys, a pair of panties in my size, and a spanking toy. My wife watched from outside the store and called me on the cell phone just as I was checking out and told me to take back on cock toy and get an additional spanking toy. The clerk was very amused.

Please share these if you wish!

Obediently yours


We will finally delurk to add our favorite method of having my sub husband masturbate for me. First and foremost he exclusively uses a condom. He is given a new one the first of each month and must care for it the entire month. This means thoroughly cleaning it, drying it and applying corn starch after each use. Of course he gets his one climax a week so he only has this reward four or the lucky 5 weeks per month. If he damages or tears the condom he must wait for the first of the month, so he is very careful.

As for use, he has to masturbate daily twice for fifteen to thirty minutes each day without climaxing. On Sunday evening he is allowed to put on his condom and carefully masturbate. Since I don't let him use any additional lubrication he is careful. No need to rush things as I see it. After his release, which has built up for seven days he removes the condom and uses one hand to encircle his penis and wipe the remaining semen from his penis. This is licked off for me. I then take the condom from him and roll the tip of the condom down about one half inch forcing any semen down from the tip. I insert the open end into his open mouth and have him close his lips so they just touch my fingers. I then slowly pull the condom from between his lips. The end result is that all the semen is neatly deposited back from whence it came. (pun intended).

Depending on my mood, I might enjoy a cup of coffee while he waits to swallow. He then washes it, dries it by inserting a small hair roller inside to keep it open. In the morning he applies corn starch and rolls it back up over the roller. We keep his little condom in a small, pretty covered ceramic jar on my nightstand.

We think it is a wonderful ritual we have practiced religiously for two and a half years. There are only three exceptions, 1) his birthday, 2) Christmas (one day only), and 3) when I decide I need him. Last year he enjoyed 45 climaxes as described above plus we think 14 in a more traditional fashion. He managed to break his condom three times resulting in only seven lost weeks.


And an anonymous reader offers these suggestions:
- Tie him in a chair and watch a porn movie. Dare him to get erect. Punish him severely if he does.
- Use a length of dog leash about 6 feet long and 2 small locks. Lock one end to a door knob and the other around his neck. Put BenGay on his hands and dare him to touch himself. Leave and go into another room. Use your dildo and make sure he can hear you! You'll hear him too!!!