Domina's Etiquette Tips

Domina, bless her, has been known to utter an opinion or two. If you would like to try to shut her up, please feel free. In the meantime, we just want to say that her opinions are not necessarily those of the Frugal Domme, it's staff, or it's owners.

We do hope, however, that you will take a moment to peruse the information contained herein.. Remember, this is Domina's take on etiquette. The etiquette online and off in the places you choose to spend your time may be different. However, most of the dommes that Domina knows, feel pretty much the same way about the kneeling and other overly deferential greetings done in cyber. In cyber, you might be making obscene gestures at the screen every three minutes. We have no way of knowing. It's pretty sure that you are not kneeling with downcast eyes or you won't be able to see the responses. So......just act like a real person, okay?

This page, by the way is general scene etiquette.  If you are looking for etiquette between a slave and his/her Master/Mistress, or specific etiquette for owned slaves as predicated by their dominants, look HERE.

If the information you find here doesn't meet your needs, try our new message board.

Copyright Myths Explained (Please read this if you plan on using articles from various web sites on the internet.  ESPECIALLY if you plan on borrowing from my website.)

BEGINNER INFORMATION AND WEBSITES

What I have Learned by Barney WizDomme Newbie Information Packet This is a nice site for those new to BDSM BDSM Basics Support for Submissive Women
This is definitely a male dom who only sees things one way, but the info is interesting
Submissive Women Kvetch
SUBMIT (for both genders)
PLAY PARTY MANNERS
BDSM Backroom Play Party Etiquette A Newbie's Guide to Party Etiquette Public Play Parties Private Play Parties Dungeon Rules 
Dungeon Etiquette and Protocol by Mistress Steele Hosting a Party Play Party Etiquette Discipline Corps Play Party Etiquette Philly Dungeon Etiquette
When You Have a Problem With a DM...        
 
REAL LIFE MEETINGS AND MANNERS
Precautions for Meeting Off Line, Someone You Met Online (This Info  developed From Real Experiences) Rules for Safe Meetings and Scenes Basic Protocol and Etiquette by Ambrosio A True Story About Accepting Collars Too Soon Posted by permission of the Author, Stacey Mistress Midori's BDSM Etiquette
CTSM About Munches First Scene Safety Black Rose Etiquette FAQ
First Meeting Safety How to Start a Munch What's a Munch???? Sweet Services Mistress Manners
Respectful Etiquette Dark Realities Public Play Manners Emotional Safety  
(Remember the Difference between "Your" dominant and "A" dominant, Please) How to Behave in Public from Femdom Palace        
 
RELATIONSHIPS
Teramis' Rules of Engagement So You Want to be an Owner So You Want to be a Slave Not Facing Reality Cold As Ice A salutary Story on Relationships
 
MISCELLANEOUS
Submissive Bill of Rights by Screamer Dip Your Toe in the Reality Pool by Screamer.  Some inescapable facts you should know Submissive's Creed  Makes some good points