Domina's Etiquette Tips

Domina, bless her, has been known to utter an opinion or two. If you would like to try to shut her up, please feel free. In the meantime, we just want to say that her opinions are not necessarily those of the Frugal Domme, it's staff, or it's owners.

We do hope, however, that you will take a moment to peruse the information contained herein.. Remember, this is Domina's take on etiquette. The etiquette online and off in the places you choose to spend your time may be different. However, most of the dommes that Domina knows, feel pretty much the same way about the kneeling and other overly deferential greetings done in cyber. In cyber, you might be making obscene gestures at the screen every three minutes. We have no way of knowing. It's pretty sure that you are not kneeling with downcast eyes or you won't be able to see the responses. So......just act like a real person, okay?

This page, by the way is general scene etiquette.  If you are looking for etiquette between a slave and his/her Master/Mistress, or specific etiquette for owned slaves as predicated by their dominants, look HERE.


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