The Three Great Lies of S&M (and a few others)...Copyright 1995 by Jay Wiseman, Lady Green, Glen the paramedic, and Dale the actress. ...that we tell straight people. 2. It's for a crafts project. 3. I fell off my bicycle.
2. I just do this for fun. I don't need it. 3. Mistress, I'll do anything you want.
2. I always stop when I feel genuine anger. 3. I only play with people I respect. 4. I'm doing this for healthy reasons.
2. I have a healty relationship with my mother. 3. I truly believe that it takes a strong woman to submit.. |
.. that submissive women tell dominant men.
2. It's enough to serve you, Master. I don't need to get off. 3. I really want you to be in charge. 4. I love it when you come in my mouth. 5. Licking your feet and asshole really turns me on. 6. I like your pot belly. 7. You own me body and soul.
2. I exist only to serve you. 3. I don't care about getting off. 4. I regard women as superior beings. 5. You're beautiful to me. 6. I really get off on doing housework for you. 7. My wife knows that I do this.
... that dominant women tell submissive men.
2. Wearing high heels makes me feel more powerful. 3. I can't top anybody who doesn't turn me on. 4. I never switch. 5. I love giving golden showers. |
2. Some of my best friends are submissive men. 3. When I watch you play at a party, I don't secretly hope that you'll fuck up and everyone will notice. 4. I can still be dominant after I've had an orgasm.
2. I never tell her what to do. 3. I've never gone to a professional Mistress. 4. I love it when my Mistress won't let me come for days. 5. I don't think my Mistress is fat. 6. I don't mind that you can take more pain than I can. 7. I really believe that my mission in life is to serve women. 8. I really like going down on my Mistress during her period.
... that bi switches tell each other.
2. I'm not at all homophobic. 3. I separate sex from SM. 4. Being bi is the best of both worlds. 5. I only play with people I feel intimate with. 6. I only play with other switches. |
... that we tell vanilla prospective play partners.
2. This is fundamentally a nurturing activity. 3. Submission is empowering. 4. You need to explore this side of yourself.
2. I feel that you and I are part of a Sisterhood. 3. I can stay in top space while I'm getting fucked.
2. I'm not really an exhibitionist. 3. I don't feel competitive towards other submissives. 4. It's OK with me if you play with my Master. |
... that professional Mistresses tell each other.
2. I never have sex with a client. 3. Business is bad. 4. I always stick to my specialty and refer out clients who want other things. 5. I'd do this even if I wasn't getting paid. 6. I never need to bottom. 7. I'm always in control of the session. 8. I'm a good businesswoman. 9. My lover doesn't mind that I do this. 10. It was my choice to leave my last straight job.
2. I know other people who are into this. 3. We negotiate everything too. |