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GENERAL INFORMATION Dark Caryls famous page for finding contacts in the scene
Informational Site on BDSM in Northern California
ALAMEDA Alameda County Leather Corps Pansexual leather, latex, and uniforms.
ATWATER Atwater BAD Elist and Munch
CAMPBELL The Usual Suspects Munch Every Friday
CANOGA PARK MP Bands; P.O. Box 2843, Canoga Park, CA 91306 (Men Only)
CHICO CAGE Munch Third Thursdays (or email
Chico Munch These are really nice people. 
Renegades of Chico  Second Saturday of the Month
CLEARLAKE Clearlake Munch (pansexual)
CONCORD Concord Munch Last Tuesday of the Month
EL CERRITO FantasyMakers Academy Monthly classes on BDSM arts
Service of Mankind Church
Female Dominant/male submissive
EUREKA Power Play Elist
FAIRFIELD Dungeon and Dreams Vacaville/Fairfield Munch Every Tuesday  7:00PM - 9:00PM  Perfect Blend Coffee House  401 E Monte Vista Ave  Vacaville, CA 
Fairfield Munch
FORTUNA Humbolt Munch Pansexual Munch Group
FRESNO T(he)G(roup)I(n)F(resno)   Very active pan sexual group or  We're sorry to have to announce that Mistress Tawnie, the founder is no longer with us. She will be very much missed.
GARDEN GROVE Orange Coast Leather Assembly
This is the only (known) SM/leather/fetish group in Orange County. The group meets on the third Tuesday of every month at 8 pm, at the Gay & Lesbian Community Services Center (non-gay people are welcome), 12832 Garden Grove Blvd, Suite A, in Garden Grove. It's between Harbor and Haster. They also have occasional events at other locations. The Center: 714-534-0862.Los Angeles BSDM Resource List
HAYWARD Alameda County Leather Corps Not for profit organization composed of residents of San Francisco's East Bay promoting educational and charitable activities through social interaction among people with an interest in leather, levi's, uniforms and latex.   PO Box 20759 Castro Valley, CA 94546  (website seems to be down, but info is that they are still active.)
The Northern California Ladies' Tea and Discussion Society Female Supremacy group who give tea parties with naked slave boy servers.
Redwood Curtain
LAKE COUNTY Lake County Munch Pansexual  4th Sunday
Lake County Munch Elist
Lake County Rainbow Club
For gay/lesbian/TG/TV/Bi/all others in the rainbow community and there friends; who are in Lake County,CA. and other areas, interested in attending a Lake County Rainbow munch. People have to know a member to join. Or be established/known in the community. And be of good standing.
LOMPOC Lompoc Munch Pansexual Second Monday
LOST COAST Lost Coast BDSM Humbolt, Arcata, Eureka Area
LOS ALTOS Stampede Pony and other Pet Play Interests
LOS ANGELES Ava Lifestyles (Pansexual)
This is the premier group for gay leathermen.

LA Brothers in Dominance (men only)
LA Leather Coalition (Pansexual information)
LA Sisters in Submission (submissive women only)
Lifestyle Friends (Pansexual)
Los Angeles Bondage Club (men Only)
Los Angeles Dommes and Subs  (Female dominant oriented)
Los Angeles Spanking Parties (Pansexual)
Pony Club of California for Ponies, Trainers, Riders, Grooms, other handlers, and interested observers on the left coast - 2nd Wednesday munch/socials (18 +) Email for information L.A.
Threshold Pansexual educational group
MARIN COUNTY Marin Munch (Pansexual)
MARINA DEL REY Threshold 2554 Lincoln Blvd. PMB 1004 Marina Del Rey, CA 90291 Phone 818-998-3800 Pan-Sexual BDSM Group
Westside Munch Group (Pansexual)
MARYSVILLE Marysville/Yuba City Munch Pansexual
MILBRAE San Mateans Are Caring Kinks!! - Millbrae - Dinner Group - email for info
MODESTO Modesto Discussion Group Pan-Sexal Group in the Central Valley 
The Northern California Ladies' Tea and Discussion Society Female Supremacy group who give tea parties with naked slave boy servers.
MONTEREY Beastie Dragon Munch 375-9500 (whatever Montery's area code is)
Marie Callendar's Munch Phone: 831- 375-9500 Second Thursdays
MBay Kinksters Elist
OAKLAND Kinky Wimmin (Woman only)
Mahogany Pleasures of Darkness Munch
for People of Color into BDSM  pansexual
ORANGE COUNTY Genesis (18-38)
Orange Coast Leather Assembly
Orange County Munch Group (Pansexual)
PALO ALTO Palo Alto Munch Pansexual Every Wednesday and Thursday
PALM SPRINGS Palm Springs Boys of Leather (men only)
Palm Springs Leather Order of the Desert (Trans/gay/lesbian/bi)
PASADENA Pasadena Munch Bunch (Pansexual)
REDDING Redding BDSM Elist
RESEDA Sanctuary Mistress Cyan's Weekly Pansexual Parties
SACRAMENTO Phoenix Women to Women BDSM mailing list
Pleasure Bound Pansexual
Sacramento Dommes (Femdom Group)
Sacramento T Transitions Munch First and Third Wednesday
SAN DIEGO Club X Pansexual
D/s Formal Dinners Pansexual egroup
Deaf Leather San Diego (pansexual)

San Diego Femme Domme Social
FemDoms and those who like them Second Sunday
Southern California Tickling (Pansexual)
SAN FERNANDO VALLEY San Fernando Valley Munch (Pansexual)
 SAN FRANCISCO BRiDgE  Bay Area Diaper Enthusiasts
Cogent Warriors; 2261 Market #250, San Francisco, CA 94114 (Men Only?)
D/s Discussion Group Third Monday at the Citadel
The Exiles; PO Box 31266, San Francisco, CA 94131-0266 Phone: (415)487-5170 (Women Only)
Fifteen Association; P.O. Box 421302, San Francisco, CA 94142 (Gay Men Only)
Golden Gate Guards Pansexual leather/motorcycle club
La Madrona; P.O. Box 1407, San Francisco, CA 94101 (Female Supremacy)
Leathermen's Discussion Group: Lone Star, 2nd floor, 1354 Harrison St. (near 10th), San Francisco (Men Only) Links; P.O. Box 420989, San Francisco, CA 94142 Phone: (415) 695-7955 or (415) 703-7159 (Pan Sexual)
Mahogany Pleasures of Darkness For people of color and those that like them
The Northern California Ladies' Tea and Discussion Society Female Supremacy group who give tea parties with naked slave boy servers.
SF Citadel a beautiful two story dungeon in the heart of SOMA
Pony Munch (or for other animals)
San Francisco Boys of Leather (male only)
San Francisco D/s Discussion Group (Pansexual)
San Francisco Girls of Leather (Girls only)
San Francisco Liquid Munch Last Monday of the Month
San Francisco Pony Munch for the animal in you. Second Wednesdays at Sparky's Diner 242 Church Street  7:30
San Francisco Queer Leather Munch 3rd Sundays at Delores Park 12-3
San Francisco Queer Spank (for those who identify as queer and who spank)
Service of Mankind Church (Female Supremacy El Cerrito)
Society of Janus (Pan Sexual)
SOJ Munch Second Saturday of the Month
Stampede Munch For those into human animals.
SAN JOSE The Brotherhood (Men Only)
Disciplinary Wives Club - DWC
Northern California based couples spanking organization
Proverts Munch First Sunday
San Jose Leather
SM Odyssey Educational organization that also sometimes sponsors parties.
SMOdyssey X Group  With members like the naked bicycle rider, who gives a shit?
South Bay Men's Discussion Group Men Only
SAN LUIS OBISPO California Central Coast Power Exchange (Pansexual)
Central Coast Gen X Power Exchange (18-35)
SAN MATEO San Mateans Are Caring Kinks Munch Second and Fourth Tuesdays
SAN PABLO San Pablo Munch email  for information
SANTA ANA Santa Ana OTK Spanking
SANTA BARBARA West Coast Power Exchange (Pansexual)
SANTA CLARA Edges (Pansexual Dungeon)
Santa Clara County Leather Organization
SANTA CRUZ Santa Cruz Munch Every Monday 
Santa Cruz Power Circle; P O Box 3284, Santa Cruz, CA 95063 (Pan Sexual)
XBDSM Pansexual
SANTA ROSA Second Sunday Munch Group Pansexual
Fourth Tuesday Munch Group 6:30 PM at Sam's For Play
STOCKTON Stockton/Delta BDSM Munch First Friday of the Month
STUDIO CITY Shadow Lane (Pan Sexual)
SUNNYVALE Sunnyvale Munch Pansexual
UKIAH First Sunday Meeting Group Email Mark for Directions
VENICE Westside Munch Group Venice, CA - munch group with 2nd Thursday get togethers - email Josef for info
VISALIA Visalia Munch elist
YUBA CITY Marysville/Yuba City Munch Pansexual
UNKNOWN Northern California BDSM Info


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